And the result is the same, I got nothing.
Cody here. I'm currently finding new ways to fill my days since I've been in lock down for some months now. It's going to be a long winter, so here I am! For your reading convenience, I'm going to bring to life- A 30 question thing-ma-jig! Okay cue the trumpets! Doo-doo-doooooo!
Also like to note, I got the questions from this dude, Michal Korzonek, on journalsmarter.com
1. Is there something that you’ve dreamt of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it? Being completely sober, I haven't because it's freaking hard. I always got to have something to fall back onto, otherwise I'd end up rolling up into a colossal mess.
2. What would you like to change about your family? I'd like to change our bad habits into something good, if it were possible I'd done it already.
3. What was a place or event that transformed your ideas, thinking, perspective, or made you come alive in a new way? What changed? When I started asking myself questions like, where am I going? What am I doing in my life? What can happen to me if I stayed in my head with my inner demons and let them have free reign in my life than my own self? I started to take control when I found out they have no power over me, even if they whisper lies still, I can have some comfort I'm still my own person.
4. What one thing you would do if it would be impossible to fail? I'd put my life into mathematics and solve one of the Millennium Prize problems, cause why not? I like to spice things up. I still could and who knows maybe I could, ahaha. Right.
5. What is something you love now, that you never could have imagined you would like in the past? Pop music. I never did like music if it were popular, only after the dying down of it, I'll get the lame hook stuck in my head or something.
6. If you could invite anyone, living or dead to dinner, who would that be and why? My grandmother, it would be nice to just have her company again. I may have forgotten your laugh but you'll always be remembered as my grandma.
7. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know? Hm, I guess I'd like to know what would have happened if I said, "Yes" or along the lines of that to somebody I once knew and see where that would of gone. I wonder if we made for each other like it had seemed for those brief moments I got to know her.
8. What are you addicted to? Cigarettes and marijuana, occasionally like to drink too.
9. What’s the milestone you’re working towards right now in your personal and professional life? I'd like to start a book or something along the lines, eh? Eh, eh? I started this here blog to start my idea building and see where it takes me.
10. What was the most bizarre encounter you’ve had in your life? Butterflies! I mean, they followed me down the mountain near-by and I swear there was loads of them flying behind me as I walked down the road to get home. It was nice to see, I would of taken pictures but I didn't have a phone or anything at the time.
11. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet? Hm, I've told everyone what they need to know, I'm sure the only thing I can think of is, "I'm sorry but I guess my time is up. See you on the flip side." Hah, don't know what else.
12. What do you spend too much time doing? What don’t you spend enough time doing? I'm on the computer far longer than any individual should be and I don't spend enough time reading the books I have currently sitting by my bed.
13. What makes you feel most alive? Singing, even if I'm horrible I'm just happy to let myself go once in a while.
14. What is something you know you do differently than most people? I found out too late, people can't hear my thoughts and it drove me mad. Why did my mind turn on me? When did it decide I was not the one in control anymore? Months I pondered this until a realization in the hospital where I decided, no more games I shall play with you and now, I'll live my life the way I want it to go until I found love or lust, who knows? It was fun nonetheless.
15. What advice would you offer to yourself five years ago? One year ago? 5 years ago, I'd say something along, "Be prepared." Something ominous like that, to scare myself. 1 year ago, say like, "Keep doing what you're doing and you'll end up like your dad."
16. What small gesture from a stranger made a big impact on you? I have no idea, probably this old man who gives everybody compliments, he always seems in high spirits and it makes me happy knowing someone can be kind and giving.
17. What are you looking forward to in the coming months? My kids' birthday is soon, hopefully their mother will buy them something for me.
18. Did you ever feel lost in your life path? How did you find your way again? Most certainly lost myself in my late teens, early twenties. I had to be hospitalized to find out who I was again. Still suffer from small voices in my head, nothing too major but a nuisance.
19. What do you want your epitaph to be? "Loving Father, Caring Brother, Forever Remembered" or something like that, it doesn't have to be perfect, I'm dead already, I'm not going to judge your words.
20. What do you regret not doing? Why haven’t you done it? Quit smoking, the cravings suck. I try to push my time away for the next smoke but I end up waiting like, 2 minutes or something before I crack.
21. What would constitute a perfect day for you? Morning coffee, cigarette and game out for a while, then eat breakfast, read maybe and eat again and go to sleep. My whole quarantine schedule.
22. What’s something you love about yourself? I love I can make myself feel things, put on a sad movie, I'll probably cry. Put on a rock anthem, I'm bound to rock out. I like feeling in control of my life.
23. When do you feel truly alive? Whenever I have some spending money to myself, it's good to treat yourself once in a while.
24. When people come to you for help, what do they usually want help with? Money or something.
25. What do you consider as your biggest achievement in the last 5 years? My kids I like to think
26. What is the most challenging part of your job? How do you handle it? Getting up every morning, I handle it by getting up anyway because I have to.
27. What was a major turning point in your life? Finding out I was unique as the snowflakes that fall and it really hit me when looking out the window stuck in the hospital, hoping for a better future than what I've already put myself through.
28. What’s one thing that could happen today that would make it great? People could talk to me, I'd be delighted just to reciprocate.
29. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why? I'd try to spend as much as I could with my kids and family because they really are the light in all my darkness. I never would of gotten as far as I thought by myself if it weren't for these special few in my life.
30. What would you like to ask yourself? I have no idea, I ask myself lots of things everyday and I answer correspondently, just not out loud.